One of the toughest obstacles for a new SAHM to surmount is lack of transportation. Whether your second car is in the shop, the family has only one car, or mama is not allowed to drive for a while after baby comes, the inability to get out and join friends can seem very isolating at a time when you most want to share your experiences. I have a few suggestions for our members without wheels.
The first step is to appoint yourself the Minister of No Transportation for your area. Information is our tool, and you are the best source of that info! Now that the responsibilities of the office are weighing heavily upon you, let's outline a rudimentary course of action.
1. Invite, invite, invite.
Perhaps you are not blessed with a home that serves the purpose of entertaining. That's okay! You know better than anyone what is within walking distance of your home. If there is a local library, coffee shop, or park that is close by, invite others to join you there. You'll get the most response if you announce your plans at least one week in advance- most of our Joy Troupe groups have members who are only too happy to hop in and have fun. Library meeting rooms can be reserved during open times without charge- there are other public spaces like this too. Or arrange a meeting point for a stroller walk or jog, weather permitting.
2. Rail & Bus
You'd be surprised how well developed the public transportation system is in the area. If you've got no wheels, scope out the WMATA and use their trip planner. Once you've plotted a course, send the info to the event coordinator and ask her to add it to the event for the benefit of other car-free folks.
3. Hitchhike.
Okay, not really- but do RSVP "maybe" and say you'd love to come if anyone is going your way. There's no guarantee that you can catch a ride, but it's worth a shot!
4. ZIP Car
Zipcar is a "car sharing" service. For those who only need a car (or a second car) occasionally, this service can save the day. Although there is a fee to join the service, hourly rental rates on weekdays start just above $9/hour for no commitment plans. You can get a lower rate if you know you'll use the car more often by opting for an "extra value plan."
5. Network
New to the area? Put a post on the forum for our local chapter titled "fun things to do in {Neighborhood Name}." But don't just wait for others to post... Go out and walk. Do a little web surfing. Add your best finds to the thread and soon others will want to check out the cool spots you've seen, which brings us back to option 1: Invite, invite, invite...
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